"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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what if she asks for your number after ....?!

Heartbreaker_boy

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hey guys i will make my question brief and clear
so the question is what if a girl after i approach her and have a small conversation and then i ask for her number then she gives it to me but after i was leaving she ask me for my number .
what's the best reaction from me would be ......give her my number or tell her i'll give it to her in the next time or what ?!!

let me know what's the best thing to do in that situation
and thanks guys this forum is so useful and cool :rockon:
 
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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sandman564

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give it to her....?
IMO if shes asking for your number shes definitely interested
 

Nicholas

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And giving your number wouldn't increase interest. Remain misterious, let her think about you, and expect your call.
 

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You can either give it to her there or call her later but I think it depends on the situation too. I think if it's a club situation where girls encounter so many girls in one night you are better off giving her your number there and then. So, she knows who it is when you call.
 

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How exactly is this a tip?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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The best thing to do? Tell her you'll give her a miss call later - so she has something to anticipate for. This will stir up attraction immediately on her subconscious level - since you demonstrated yourself as a healthy challenge :)
 

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Allurre said:
The best thing to do? Tell her you'll give her a miss call later - so she has something to anticipate for. This will stir up attraction immediately on her subconscious level - since you demonstrated yourself as a healthy challenge :)
this's the best thing to do !
thanks man
 

bookman

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aren't you over analyzing?
not everything has to be a game, she probably just needs your number so she would recognized the caller when you call... many people(including myself actually) would not answer a call from an unknown number :p
 
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