"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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What if it ALL didn't work?

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Don Juan
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Hi,

I'll admit I was a lurker from before. The one issue I ALWAYS ****ing had was a confidence, self-esteem, issue. I literally read through a lot of the DJ Bible, pooks books, etc. All in all after some years (yes years) I never felt I broke my barrier. I tried to practice a lot of it, but sometimes found myself without the results I was hoping for. Overall, I just absolutely understand that my HUGE flaw is confidence.

So...I took a pretty bold move. I needed a change in life so I'm doing something life changing...I've enlisted into the Marines. Reason being, I don't know what else to do to give myself confidence. I've heard that completing something so daunting and difficult helps your confidence. To be honest it's something I see in pretty much EVERY Marine so I'm taking the chance.

Don't take this wrong, it's not a thing to get women or be popular, but to be a MAN. To be strong and confident. I guess I'm writing this to get some input on what you guys think. I'm sure I'll get "good luck getting shot" or some ****, but post something that really lets me see your real opinion. I'm curious as to what you guys think.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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