"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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What if it ALL didn't work?

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Don Juan
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Hi,

I'll admit I was a lurker from before. The one issue I ALWAYS ****ing had was a confidence, self-esteem, issue. I literally read through a lot of the DJ Bible, pooks books, etc. All in all after some years (yes years) I never felt I broke my barrier. I tried to practice a lot of it, but sometimes found myself without the results I was hoping for. Overall, I just absolutely understand that my HUGE flaw is confidence.

So...I took a pretty bold move. I needed a change in life so I'm doing something life changing...I've enlisted into the Marines. Reason being, I don't know what else to do to give myself confidence. I've heard that completing something so daunting and difficult helps your confidence. To be honest it's something I see in pretty much EVERY Marine so I'm taking the chance.

Don't take this wrong, it's not a thing to get women or be popular, but to be a MAN. To be strong and confident. I guess I'm writing this to get some input on what you guys think. I'm sure I'll get "good luck getting shot" or some ****, but post something that really lets me see your real opinion. I'm curious as to what you guys think.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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