"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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What if I want to be the loser who women can't resist?

Moonlight

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Women get losers because they are insecure and need someone to be "better than." And, losers can be very charming. Women don't respect these men or themselves. There's a lot of fighting, arguing and drama because these men don't take care of business. :kick: If you're happy being this way - so be it. I'm glad I'm not part of that anymore.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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DonJuan11

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Luke Skywalker said:
My experiments show otherwise.

Last year, in November 2006, an adult ad was placed out that would virtually seek a pity lay (i.e. saying I'm a virgin because x,y,z) and I got four potential hook-ups from there within 30 days of some persistant effort. The funny thing about it is, people on there think I'm cute or handsome and dont expect me to be a 31 y/o virgin.

That shows that even a fat person could go on adultfriendfinder, cry virgin because he's fat and he'll likely pick up a pity-**** in due time and with some persistance.
How old and good looking where the hookups? I've tried similar things but people dont' believe me or the ones that offer are overweight by 25 pounds or more or in their mid 30s. I can never get a hot 22 year old virgin to offer.
 

Bonez

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BCOMusic said:
Losers who get girls don't give a **** about girls

Losers who don't get girls, don't give a **** about themselves.
truth
 
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