"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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What if I want to be the loser who women can't resist?

Moonlight

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Women get losers because they are insecure and need someone to be "better than." And, losers can be very charming. Women don't respect these men or themselves. There's a lot of fighting, arguing and drama because these men don't take care of business. :kick: If you're happy being this way - so be it. I'm glad I'm not part of that anymore.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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DonJuan11

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Luke Skywalker said:
My experiments show otherwise.

Last year, in November 2006, an adult ad was placed out that would virtually seek a pity lay (i.e. saying I'm a virgin because x,y,z) and I got four potential hook-ups from there within 30 days of some persistant effort. The funny thing about it is, people on there think I'm cute or handsome and dont expect me to be a 31 y/o virgin.

That shows that even a fat person could go on adultfriendfinder, cry virgin because he's fat and he'll likely pick up a pity-**** in due time and with some persistance.
How old and good looking where the hookups? I've tried similar things but people dont' believe me or the ones that offer are overweight by 25 pounds or more or in their mid 30s. I can never get a hot 22 year old virgin to offer.
 

Bonez

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BCOMusic said:
Losers who get girls don't give a **** about girls

Losers who don't get girls, don't give a **** about themselves.
truth
 
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