Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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LikRetsam

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It's all bull****. These rules... these posts.... They mean nothing. Step outside. Look at all those people with girlfriends and married couples. They don't know about sosuave yet they are still succesful! What the hell!? I thought we were right!

The girls thing and getting chicks is just a cover up for the real plan. This site is about self improvement. Becoming the better you. Getting the right qualities like not taking crap from no one.
You need to read between the lines.

What they say does indeed work, but I prefer to be free, to play the game my own way without having thoughts through my head going "That's not what a DJ would do." or "DJ would put his arm around her"

Live by YOUR rules.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Originally posted by LikRetsam
This site is about self improvement.
We've got a winner.
 

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Originally posted by LikRetsam
The girls thing and getting chicks is just a cover up for the real plan. This site is about self improvement. Becoming the better you. Getting the right qualities like not taking crap from no one.
You need to read between the lines.
This is EXACTLY my philosophy about the things this site teaches you. When the day is over, I am happy to have found sosuave.com not because it helped me to get chicks, but because it helped me to actually start enjoying life; to take risks and live the way I want to live, and to reap the benefits of such a life.

Thank you, LikRetsam, for so clearly articulating my thoughts. I love you forever.
 
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