What would you do if you met this gal, and she was extraordinarily beautiful, not only an HB10 but classy movie star looking, and intelligent as well. However, she acted all AFC and clingy after you met her and perhaps dated her a little bit. If you did date her a few times she would profess her undying love for you and tell you that you are her soul mate, you two were met to be together blah blah. She would appear to have self esteem issues and demonstrate low value. In short, she would act like a super female AFC. How would you handle this? Would it be a turnoff even if an HB10 acted like the female version of an AFC?
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
What if hot chick acts like a female AFC?
- Thread starter StevenR
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
comic_relief
Master Don Juan
Drop her like a rock because I would be too annoyed with her.
Lance Armstrong dumped Katie Hudson because she became too clingy.
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Lance Armstrong dumped Katie Hudson because she became too clingy.
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
I.A.F.Y.B.
Master Don Juan
It depends how clingy she is. I don't mind some girls going head over heels for me. But, enough is enough sometimes. If she is starting to get annoying let her know you need space and ect. I see you 34 years old. Is she close to your age? She might be acting that way cause she is looking for the one in her life right now.
blackbelt2k
Senior Don Juan
wait, so....there is a chick chasing you, a hot one to add...and your going to dump her? Dude, take a step back and look at the situation. Whatever you've been doing, has been working. You have a beautiful woman completely infatuated with you. Continue to see her, let it go for a couple of months, then ltr her when she asks..but make her you're dating at least 4 months.
TheBucketOfTruth
Master Don Juan
Guys are more resistant to AFC style behavior in women (especially if they are hot), but it still has its effect. The game works both ways in a lot of the cases we're used to dealing with. Female AFC behavior isn't attractive, calling too much, being too clingy, etc. It's a two way street guys. Some here might deny it, but it's true.