What would you do if you met this gal, and she was extraordinarily beautiful, not only an HB10 but classy movie star looking, and intelligent as well. However, she acted all AFC and clingy after you met her and perhaps dated her a little bit. If you did date her a few times she would profess her undying love for you and tell you that you are her soul mate, you two were met to be together blah blah. She would appear to have self esteem issues and demonstrate low value. In short, she would act like a super female AFC. How would you handle this? Would it be a turnoff even if an HB10 acted like the female version of an AFC?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
What if hot chick acts like a female AFC?
- Thread starter StevenR
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
comic_relief
Master Don Juan
Drop her like a rock because I would be too annoyed with her.
Lance Armstrong dumped Katie Hudson because she became too clingy.
comic_relief
Lance Armstrong dumped Katie Hudson because she became too clingy.
comic_relief
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
I.A.F.Y.B.
Master Don Juan
It depends how clingy she is. I don't mind some girls going head over heels for me. But, enough is enough sometimes. If she is starting to get annoying let her know you need space and ect. I see you 34 years old. Is she close to your age? She might be acting that way cause she is looking for the one in her life right now.
blackbelt2k
Senior Don Juan
wait, so....there is a chick chasing you, a hot one to add...and your going to dump her? Dude, take a step back and look at the situation. Whatever you've been doing, has been working. You have a beautiful woman completely infatuated with you. Continue to see her, let it go for a couple of months, then ltr her when she asks..but make her you're dating at least 4 months.
TheBucketOfTruth
Master Don Juan
Guys are more resistant to AFC style behavior in women (especially if they are hot), but it still has its effect. The game works both ways in a lot of the cases we're used to dealing with. Female AFC behavior isn't attractive, calling too much, being too clingy, etc. It's a two way street guys. Some here might deny it, but it's true.