What would you do if you met this gal, and she was extraordinarily beautiful, not only an HB10 but classy movie star looking, and intelligent as well. However, she acted all AFC and clingy after you met her and perhaps dated her a little bit. If you did date her a few times she would profess her undying love for you and tell you that you are her soul mate, you two were met to be together blah blah. She would appear to have self esteem issues and demonstrate low value. In short, she would act like a super female AFC. How would you handle this? Would it be a turnoff even if an HB10 acted like the female version of an AFC?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
What if hot chick acts like a female AFC?
- Thread starter StevenR
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
comic_relief
Master Don Juan
Drop her like a rock because I would be too annoyed with her.
Lance Armstrong dumped Katie Hudson because she became too clingy.
comic_relief
Lance Armstrong dumped Katie Hudson because she became too clingy.
comic_relief
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
I.A.F.Y.B.
Master Don Juan
It depends how clingy she is. I don't mind some girls going head over heels for me. But, enough is enough sometimes. If she is starting to get annoying let her know you need space and ect. I see you 34 years old. Is she close to your age? She might be acting that way cause she is looking for the one in her life right now.
blackbelt2k
Senior Don Juan
wait, so....there is a chick chasing you, a hot one to add...and your going to dump her? Dude, take a step back and look at the situation. Whatever you've been doing, has been working. You have a beautiful woman completely infatuated with you. Continue to see her, let it go for a couple of months, then ltr her when she asks..but make her you're dating at least 4 months.
TheBucketOfTruth
Master Don Juan
Guys are more resistant to AFC style behavior in women (especially if they are hot), but it still has its effect. The game works both ways in a lot of the cases we're used to dealing with. Female AFC behavior isn't attractive, calling too much, being too clingy, etc. It's a two way street guys. Some here might deny it, but it's true.