"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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What if girl sees my new model laced screensaver?

cervantesscthree

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(This post is not to be taken very seriously, so any responses, funny or not is more than welcome)

Just got a few new pics of models to use as a screensaver for my laptop. I'm seeing a girl tomorrow and she's gunna see them when my laptop comes on. I think she'll be flabbergasted (given her character) anyone else have any ideas on how they think it affects a woman when you have models for yr screensaver on yr laptop?

(here's one of the pics for curiosity's sake, I know I'm putting my taste in women out there so I'm expecting light hearted abuse to follow): http://hiphopwired.com/2012/11/10/b...liated-former-pole-athlete-nya-lee-photos/12/
 
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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cervantesscthree

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Oh god no I'm not being entirely serious, I was hoping someone could share their experiences, I wouldn't be looking for serious advice with this one at all, the more humour the better.
 

cervantesscthree

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Haha fair enough, yr opinion.

You could at least add yr thoughts on how you think it affects a woman when you have models for wallpapers on yr laptop.
 

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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

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Well it could make her think of you as a sexual guy rather than a friend who isn't afraid of being a man.

Or it could make her think your a bit weird.

I'm afraid I don't know much about the way girls minds work
 

cervantesscthree

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Cool. I saw her today and she wasn't too happy about it, "Why would you have that as yr screen paper?" She asked to be exact. She seemed more annoyed with it than anything, as if the picture somehow demonstrated that she couldn't reach my standards.

I kept it my screen saver regardless.
 
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