"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Okay, a friend of mine introduced me to his cousin over the telephone, and we had some conversations over the phone. However, this chick (who was white) acted very ghetto and acted as if she was some black chick. (I am black by the way). So I lost a lot of interest in her, seeing that it seems that she was just playing a lot of games, and I didn't feel comfortable even talking with her. (I dunno why I did this...but read on.....)

One day, after me finally picking up on one of her dozens of calls she would give me everyday, we decided to meet up to see what each other looked like.

So I pulled up at her door, (this was at night), and she walked out to the car and as soon as I seen her I said, "Uh, you're ugly!" (but in a light tone, where it would not seem like I was being rude). But she acts all like she is not interested, doesn't even hold a conversation, and runs back into the house.

I told my friend that I thought she was ugly, (even though she wasn't that bad when she was dressed up, maybe a 6). But she made it clear to them that I was ugly. But she still calls me. I don't even pay her attention.

Okay, my question is, should I care if she called me ugly, and should I have just stopped dealing with this girl a long time ago. I tried to ignore her, but she would call my job and everything!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Here's the deal. She's trying to play the same game you are with her, except she's taking it too far.

Sounds like she's got some social retardation. I'd deep six the six.
 
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If you're not into her, then what does it matter if she called you ugly? Like her opinion matters! Tell her to quit callin your job and recommend her to ambush makeover.
 
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I really don't thing you should care what she says about you. The opinion of an ugly girl really doesn't mean that much.
 
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I think u should shoot her in the face.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Laugh at her, and tell her how funny white people are when they speak ebonics....yo yo yo..Know I'm saying?
 
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