what I think is wrong with DJism

[frivolousz21]

I think the main problem is...it curtails more to reacting to the women..rather then being the man.

its clear the main intention was to change the man into what he wants to be.

but it seems the outcome is changing into what will get him the women the easiest.



but in reality this isnt about women.

yet it is..seems complicated. there is to much conflict.

the disclaimer should read:

EVEN THOUGH YOU ARE CONFIDENT, STRONG, POWERFUL AND SUAVE....YOU MAY STILL GET HURT IN SOMEWAY BECAUSE OF A WOMAN.


I think issue number 1 is emotions..Sosuave is really going against human nature...men are very passionate driven competetive creatures..

we all want to win.

we all have passions...if we werent EMOTIONAL YOU WOULDNT SEE OTHER GUYS FLAMING EACH OTHER ALL ACCROSS THE INTERNET AND REAL LIFE.

the diff between being emotional afc is..control.

women love a passionate man...women love humility in men too.

infact men love to be humble as well..but most are afraid to show that side in fear of looking or appearing weak.

self depricating humor done with confidence is golden...so is being ****y with confidence.

Take notice..about 90 percent of SS posters flame me..or have flamed me...why? probably because Ive done the pua game..now the LTR life acting more moderate then being "hard ass" because the inner light kicked in on me that..my world runs by how I percieve it.

regardless of all that..anytime you see a poster post about women doing this or that..

they have just supplicated themselves to what others are doing and not what they should be doing.


this is about you...be urself first..find urself..be the man u want to be....do the things u want to do and the confidence will grow.


throw all studies on divorce and women and BLAH out..and focus on ur inner game..and waht others do will be irrevelent to ur success.

 

[fyrefly]

I don't think this is a valid thread seeing as you think you can specify what DJism is in just a few lines. Hence i ask nobody else to post in here so we can have more space for decent threads. There is nothing wrong with DJism, you are just doing DJism wrong.

 

[frivolousz21]

There is nothing wrong with DJism, you are just doing DJism wrong.

trust me...if ive done it wrong...then there is other ways to success with women then this one

 

[theSpeculator]

I hear you frivolousz21 and here is my definitions of DJism:

DJism: making yourself into the man that women wants.

What most posters here do: learning "easy" techniques to get lay.

 

[Egoist]

i guess being a good PUA/DJ/Snatchpuller requires you to be somewhat cold and calculating and takes away some of your human feelings.

and yes, we are emotional, passionate creatures, so i guess the trick is to make it work for yourself.

at the end of the day, its whatever makes you happy. There is always a chance to get your heart broken, yet everyone needs love.

i guess the most important lessons of the community are to recognize good vs. bad women, never to stay in a situation where you are taken advantage of or hurt, and of course to be your own, confident, accomplished man.

 

[frivolousz21]

guess the most important lessons of the community are to recognize good vs. bad women, never to stay in a situation where you are taken advantage of or hurt, and of course to be your own, confident, accomplished man

this is exatly right