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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

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what i should have done in this situation.(regarding eye contact)

lordson

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if you dont have alot of time for long stories, skip straight to last sentence.

a girl i have been noticing for a while and i think she has been noticing me to a lesser extent. well today i happned to be in the same tutorial class as her, completely by chance and blind luck. and she happens to sit directly oposite me.

it wasn't that hot but she took off her jacket and i i thought i might as well take off my jacket and show her a bit of my muscles. well anyway, i find this girl rather atractive and shes on about the same level as me (7.5).

throughout the whole 2 hours she was looking at me alot, i noticed becuase although i was looking away form her face i was concentrating on her and notcied she did glance at me alot. and of course, finding her attractive, i glanced at her alot too.

now i see her in lectures sometimes and we sometimes exchange looks as well, once i sat next to her, with an empty seat seperating, and im not certian but i might have gotten more looks than usual

anyway, at a point in the tute, i looked up form my workbook, and i met her eyes and we were staring directly into each other's eyes for about 1.5 seconds, and to me it felt like 5 seconds, i could feel my blood pumping, BUT i looked away. i blame it on a reflex i have to look away when peopel catch me staring at them

so i was thinking about it later and thought, nay, knew i should have held eye contact and gave her a smile. thats what i SHOULD have done. but i didn't, after that point the looks deminished.

well thats my story. thought others might benefit from my experince.

point is, i should have kept eye contact, and if given enough time, (granted she didn't look away) i should have smiled.
 

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Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

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Phyzzle

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See "questions for newbies" on the first chapter of the DJ Bible.

You've gotta bump into this girl again, look her in the eye, engage in some kinda small talk, and get a # or something.
 
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