"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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What I saw today on this woman's vehicle blew my mind.

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This woman today drove by in a vehicle that looked fairly new, she had "I LOVE YOU KAYLA" written on the side implying this was Kayla driving and the vehicle was a gift to her, and I thought "Wow, that must be a high value woman there for some bumbling gumshoe to buy her a vehicle"

And that got me thinking, what if I put that on my vehicle? I mean, it's obviously disingenuous but does it send that same message of high value, as if you were gifted this by somebody and yeah it's very corny, but the idea is that you must be valuable to be gifted this.

I don't think I would ever do this, authenticity is important to me, I just thought it was interesting more than anything, almost like getting some clout because your taking her for a ride in a vehicle that another woman gave you, there is that pinch of conflict that always gets their juices flowing.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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This woman today drove by in a vehicle that looked fairly new, she had "I LOVE YOU KAYLA" written on the side implying this was Kayla driving and the vehicle was a gift to her, and I thought "Wow, that must be a high value woman there for some bumbling gumshoe to buy her a vehicle"

And that got me thinking, what if I put that on my vehicle? I mean, it's obviously disingenuous but does it send that same message of high value, as if you were gifted this by somebody and yeah it's very corny, but the idea is that you must be valuable to be gifted this.

I don't think I would ever do this, authenticity is important to me, I just thought it was interesting more than anything, almost like getting some clout because your taking her for a ride in a vehicle that another woman gave you, there is that pinch of conflict that always gets their juices flowing.
Women love showing off what they get from men. She is happy to go around showing that she didn't pay for the car and got someone else to buy it, because women judge their value not by what they do but by what they can get from men.
 
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