"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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What i said to a girl about ****ing chad and disrespecting me

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So just thought i would out this here..pls guys dont be harsh im just posint here as it was sent..this is how i talk when needed...baically this is where i am atm, i mean i got other moves, plays strategies but this also will give you an idea of my mindset, issues, grievances etc..

long story about this girl but she is a hot girl i met online been talking for some time she had i bleive one sexual partner prior to me talking to her and when i talked to her she kept bringing up stuff about female dating strategey or whatever and there was this weird personality oterwise she was good social intelligent concsiencous etc..

but i thnk she was too enamoured by what other females are doing and im some outsider who doeesnt fir into that so ifelt i was competing with some idea she had of guys like chads on tinder and in the end she ****ed it all up by distancing herself from me and hacing a pointless thing im sure it was a chad from tinder and it went nowhere and she was left with nothing hen she was 30 she wanted to talk to me her detour was a big failure the short term experience was nothing and then i told her im not interested now she alrady had 2+ years of being lonely after that thing went nowhere and she missed mea lot last 2 yeaers but she made me wait wanted me long term in commitment but she did a chad in the meantime so this si what i told her..now she got nothing and if she wnna be cool with me better change her attitude about WHICH TYPE OF GUY IS FOR SEX

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I hope this fool understand cos icba explaining it all..

You know Innana, when you are talking to me..you think im talking to you, im investing, you think you can say no, make me wait..mauke me chase..make drama...you think im a victim you think i must be a loser otherwise why would i allow that..

Its just because I knew that either this works out or you will lose with a major humiliation...you are too supid to joke about all this sex stuff and that men need to get laid quick or your personality and ego will not give it up..

look this is not a competition,,if you dont give it up..you will lose evreything..like i told you when you wanted to go vc.."dont mess your life up" that is when you thought sex was funny..and you did mess your life up in the end because you think its funny your ego your emotions your trash feelings weird creepy and thinking you have too much power to abuse me make me wait and give it up to soeone you think is a real man or whatver..

So you gonna go to your friends in nott the single ones you will tell them i am the best guy..tell them to come have sex with me..tinder and chad is nothing to them...i know you fantasize about chad from tinder..i know you wanted the same guy girls like you want to ****...and you just let him have his fun and now hes gone and you got nothing but humiliation...

If you have sex with me, that is what you are menat to do..it will be better for you...i dont need to presure,lie manipulate or antyubg...it is just that you are too low and stupif and immature to get it...

So whatever you think or find sexy or fantasize it is all bull**** i know cos i know the game inside out...

AND YOU AND OTHER GIRLS ARE S****ING WITH THE SAME TYPE OF GUY FANTASING YOU ARE SOME ELITE COUPLES YOU ARE SOME ELITE SEXY HUMANS WHEN YOU ARE BOTH RATS THE LOWEST THING...so you shouldnt bring that trash to me you fool..

IM NOT GONNA ALLOW ANOTHER TYOE OF GUY TO BE GETTING LAID AND IM BEING DISRESPECTED, YOU ****ING RAT..IT IS NOT ABOUT YOU...

Girls like you ARE USING WORDS LIKE CREEPY WEIRD TO ME BUT YOU ARE ALL ****ING TEH SAME LOSER CHAD AND YOU END UP JUST CONFUSED, LOST the lowest of all humainty and so you shouldnt use that word...

Because that guy you gave it to all you girls are giving it up to him and you are just losers little rats..

and idk WHAT you find sexy about those guy chad or whatnot...

Girls like you use the word creepy and werid just so you can keep the power over me and so you can just fantasize and elevate those rats and have sex with them...

YOU ARE JUST A RAT THAT YOU ****ED GUYS WAY LOWER THAN ME AND THEN YOU SHOW DISRESPECT FOR SO LONG...AND NOT JUST YOU ALL THE GIRLS LIKE YOU LITTLE RATS WHO ARE ALL TRASH AND DISRESPECTFUL..

I know attractive girls like you think those guys those sex experiences is something elite and tryig to act like im some dichead...

For your progress and growth obviouslt you just had to have the correct atttiude..you were talking to me it was good so im the guy you have sex with end of story..

Thats what normal people used to do...but girls like you now..following other girls..you think you wanna be with some elite guy from tinder guve him sex and act like you are some elite sexy couple but you are just rats you and girls like you DONT KNOW WHAT IS A REAL MAN

I only spoke to you cos I felt sorry for you...becuase you had nothing else...had you had other good options i would have let you go..for your deep disrespect..and you would be 30+ single (it dont matter if you are nott or brum) aloine and a loser..

SO DONT BE GIVING SEX WHEN YOU ARE YOUNG AND HOT FANTASIZIN ABOUT SOME RAT CHAD FROM TINDER FOLLWING YOUR LITTLE RAT FRIENDS THEN COMING TO GUYS LIKE ME WHEN 30+ CHATTING SOME ****..

girls like you are little rats..

AND YOU ARE NOT THE ONLY ONE WHO I HAVE DONE THIS TOO..I TOLD YOU A THE START I CAN DO THIS TO YOU I KNOEW THIS IS WHAT HAPPENS TO WOMEN WHO GET CONFUSED ABOUT WHO IS THE SEXY GUY WHERE IS SEX AND RESPECT MEANT TO GO,.

You just wanted to have sex with the same type of guy who is getting laid by other girls..and he just ****ed you and left you...

IT DONT MATTER WHAT THE WORLD IS DOING..WHAT IS ONLINE..WHAT IS FEMALE DATING STRATEGY WHAT OTHER GIRLS ARE DOING..they are just rats and you will ****ING LOSE and get humilation and emptiness a big punishment for your trash...

LISTEN..WHAT THE **** IS YOUR PROBLEM...WHAT IS THE PROBLEM..YOU WANNA **** THESE OTHER GUYS YOU AND YOUR FRIENDS ALL ****ING TEH SAMNE GUY FROM TINDER...SO WHAT THE **** IS YOUR PROBLEM I TOLD YOU..YOU AND YOUR FRIENDS COME TO ME..SO WHAT ITHE **** IS YOUR PROBLEM YOU WANNA PLAY ME AND GO TO SOME RANDOM GUY THEN WHAT DID YOU GET YOU ****ING RAT..

You will go to your friends..talk to them..txt them and show me..YOU WILL TELL YOUR HOUSEMATES/FRIENDS ANY ATTRACTIVE WOMEN,..YOU WILL TELL THEM "THIS IS THE BEST GUY..THOSE OTHER BOYS ARE NOTHING..SO YOU SHOULD **** THIS GUY AND BE HUMBLE" YOU ARE GPNNA SAY THIS TO OTHER WOMEN YOU KNOW..

You are the only rat...alyka, jen, becka, all the women online are cool and normalish...you the craziest one fantasing about chad and you acting like there is some higher people out there that you wanna be part of ...

THE REASON YOU WERE NERVOUS AND WEIRD ONLINE...YOU KNNEW THEN TALKING TO ME...YOU CAN EITHER B COOL AND STRAIGHT OR BE A PLAYER, AND YOU JUST NERVOUS ABOUT BEING COOL AND STRAIGHT...you are just holding on so you can give it to a random from tinder,..

Ive done this to others and i wanted to do it you..to let you go so you can rmember your disrescpet forever,.

anyway if you wanna be a rat and think you gonna withhold it from me..cos you jsut wannabe a spiteful rat and give it up to others, or talk **** or be dishonest. saying your celibate or some ****..whatever it is...your just a ****ing rat at the end of the day..until you make yourself straight...

YOU JUST NEED TO GET IT. I AM THE GUY FOR SEX AND INTIMACY..YOU KNOW THIS..YOUR FRIENDS KNOW THIS..YOUR HOUSEMATES KNOW THIS..and you cuss and humilate all other men and women...eso girls on tunder and chad and all your other options...

BEFORE ANYTHING IN YOUR HEAD..ANY EMTOIONS, ANY FEELINGS..DRAMA, PLANS, IDEAS, MARRIAGE, COMMITMENT, NOTTINGHAM BEFORE ANYHTING IS YOR HEAD FIRST AND FOREMOST YOU NOW GET YOUR HEAD RIGHT I AM THE GUY FOR SEX FIRST AND FOREMOST..."
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Prepostereax

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1. you sound like you're drunk and/or high
I didn't follow half of what you wrote

2. You met on tinder what do you expect?
She'd disrespect you more if she fukt chud instead of chad

3. She has power over you because you're entertaining her conversation.
Stop it. Cut her off. Move on

4. Expect the next to be no different
 

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nah i met her online on discrod, shoild have said...

its like this. meet someone (anywhwere) and you talk to them..what i did..it was good, it is good, we talk or you may txt, meet in person, in groups, basicaly any form of interaction wehter IRL on online...but the girl esp this one got this attitude she will make you wait..not give it up, but they can and do take it too far..in the end they will **** some guy either chad from tinder or chad from outside, for a casual or failed relationship,

but every girl who done this loses out and fails...esp with me..and this one wants me in her life...

so my message i admonished her...for that attitude...and i told her you can see what i said...

Why would i cut her off..she just learnt alot, she experienced it, she wants me in her life, she wants the relationship, and i told her she needs to promote me to other girls and bring them to me for sex...i think its worth it to keep her and test this game...

if i was a normal guy i would get upset and let girls go...but then i think i already got a history a decent story alot of leverage and experience might aswell put on my pimp hat and see what i can make of this...its not like i am giving her exclusivitt she alredy knows i will talk to other girls etc
 

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Listen bro, these chicks are trying to play me like they play other men...

Like how they talk all that bs like a they need a man 6ft+ all the bs entitlement bs.

I cant really have relationships until i can rbeak that bs..

I also know chicks IRL and from other avenues..and i can progress things but i dont like to do it under the pretenses other men accept..

all that bs..

anyway this one is ok, we are in a friend group, they are long term friends, she wants me, everyone knows the story, no point leaving her hanging, but yh also this one was brining more of that modern culture attitude, but she is a nice girl, but she couldnt shake that stuff cos its too widesprad, teh hookup clture, that it caters to women etc

anywy i had forgotten her but recently i contacted my friend after a couple of years he was in touchwith her told her i am in contact he kept nudging me too talk about her, i wasnt even talking or asking about her, as far as i knew we were done but then i found she is lonely, missing me, her life didnt work out last couple of years, wants to be cool again etc and then i went into all this..
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Bro, write a whole audiobook and go lift.

You know who has little respect for other people's time and isn't considerate? People who write walls of text like this.
 

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WHAT IM SAYING WHEN YOU ARE A REAL MAN ITS OK TO NOT BE PERFECT YOU DONT NEED TO FOLLOW THOSE FEMINE RULES YOU CAN WRITE LONG TEXTS YOU CAN BE ANNOYING YOU CAN BE REAL THE BOYS OF TODAY IM TRYING TO HELP THEM OUT
 

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WHAT IM SAYING WHEN YOU ARE A REAL MAN ITS OK TO NOT BE PERFECT YOU DONT NEED TO FOLLOW THOSE FEMINE RULES YOU CAN WRITE LONG TEXTS YOU CAN BE ANNOYING YOU CAN BE REAL THE BOYS OF TODAY IM TRYING TO HELP THEM OUT
I think you should just worry about yourself if you are getting this upset about some random chick online that you never met.
 

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@kavi "Listen bro, these chicks are trying to play me like they play other men..."

They're succeeding
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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