"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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what i have learnt about girls in clubs

TheGameMaster

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many may find this obvious but i am only just realising it.

once you've pulled a girl in a club, if you ever want to see her again afterwards, if shes any decent sort of standard then you'll need to make yourself different from the guy she pulled last week. maybe you can salsa dance, maybe she thinks you are funny or maybe you had some deep conversation.

what i am saying is that if all you've done is taken her hand on the dance floor, grinded with her abit and then kissed her, you'd be damn lucky to see her again. saying that, if thats all you want out of her then there is no problem.
but anyone looking for dates should make sure they take the girl elsewhere in the club to chat or be a damn smooth mover!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Four_Aces

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Exactly. When gaming a girl in a club, it's essential to MOVE HER FROM THE INITIAL LOCATION, and create comfort with her somewhere semi-secluded. Or else she won't remember you from the hundreds of other guys she's danced with before.

You're right - I think creating a impression on the girl that YOU are DIFFERENT than the rest of them is essential in getting a Day 2.

Cheers, and happy gaming.
 
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