"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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what i have learnt about girls in clubs

TheGameMaster

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many may find this obvious but i am only just realising it.

once you've pulled a girl in a club, if you ever want to see her again afterwards, if shes any decent sort of standard then you'll need to make yourself different from the guy she pulled last week. maybe you can salsa dance, maybe she thinks you are funny or maybe you had some deep conversation.

what i am saying is that if all you've done is taken her hand on the dance floor, grinded with her abit and then kissed her, you'd be damn lucky to see her again. saying that, if thats all you want out of her then there is no problem.
but anyone looking for dates should make sure they take the girl elsewhere in the club to chat or be a damn smooth mover!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Four_Aces

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Exactly. When gaming a girl in a club, it's essential to MOVE HER FROM THE INITIAL LOCATION, and create comfort with her somewhere semi-secluded. Or else she won't remember you from the hundreds of other guys she's danced with before.

You're right - I think creating a impression on the girl that YOU are DIFFERENT than the rest of them is essential in getting a Day 2.

Cheers, and happy gaming.
 
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