"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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What I did..

dice

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while the forum was down..

I never had the guts to sarge before, but I was tired of being alone so I told myself I would do 500 approaches before the forums were up again. 500 turned out to be way too much but now that the forum is up I'm going to continue to try to get to 500.

My line has been.. "Hi I think you're pretty can I get your phone #"
but lately I've been trying to get atleast some kind of rapport before asking for the #, my favorite is in malls if I see an HB ill ask if they're hiring and then follow it up with asking for the #.

These are my results thus far:

67 approaches
14 #'s received
53 no # received

which have equated to

3 dates
1 girl sleeping in my bed ( making out no sex tho)

14-53 may not be a good ratio but some of them were married, and I swear if I hear "sorry I have a boyfriend" one more time I'm going to throwup on the HB.

I'd say the hardest part is finding good places to sarge, where there are lots of girls to ask. Malls are great but I don't want to go too much or else security and the workers are going to catch on that some dude keeps wondering around the mall all the time not buying anything. Anyway just thought I'd share my experience.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Bourne

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That line will work for a while but not on good women. Try to modify each approach and learn from them. Don't do same one over and over again. Also if you are going to compliment. Do so but use it for something specific instead of using that compliment, which is generic.

I'll give you that, you have b@lls, that most people don't. Just constantly improve.
 

Desdinova

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67 approaches
14 #'s received
53 no # received

which have equated to

3 dates
1 girl sleeping in my bed ( making out no sex tho)
Your rapport is what's causing low results. When you have a conversation with a woman, she needs to get the message that you are the fvcking golden catch. Try being upbeat and fun with these women! Poke fun at their ugly uniforms. Say something like "Wow, I think I saw that same outfit in (trendy clothes store). How much did you pay for it?"

Keep the conversation fun, be enthusiastic when talking to her, and you'll likely stick in her memory when you call her up for a date.
 
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