"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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What I did..

dice

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while the forum was down..

I never had the guts to sarge before, but I was tired of being alone so I told myself I would do 500 approaches before the forums were up again. 500 turned out to be way too much but now that the forum is up I'm going to continue to try to get to 500.

My line has been.. "Hi I think you're pretty can I get your phone #"
but lately I've been trying to get atleast some kind of rapport before asking for the #, my favorite is in malls if I see an HB ill ask if they're hiring and then follow it up with asking for the #.

These are my results thus far:

67 approaches
14 #'s received
53 no # received

which have equated to

3 dates
1 girl sleeping in my bed ( making out no sex tho)

14-53 may not be a good ratio but some of them were married, and I swear if I hear "sorry I have a boyfriend" one more time I'm going to throwup on the HB.

I'd say the hardest part is finding good places to sarge, where there are lots of girls to ask. Malls are great but I don't want to go too much or else security and the workers are going to catch on that some dude keeps wondering around the mall all the time not buying anything. Anyway just thought I'd share my experience.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Bourne

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That line will work for a while but not on good women. Try to modify each approach and learn from them. Don't do same one over and over again. Also if you are going to compliment. Do so but use it for something specific instead of using that compliment, which is generic.

I'll give you that, you have b@lls, that most people don't. Just constantly improve.
 

Desdinova

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67 approaches
14 #'s received
53 no # received

which have equated to

3 dates
1 girl sleeping in my bed ( making out no sex tho)
Your rapport is what's causing low results. When you have a conversation with a woman, she needs to get the message that you are the fvcking golden catch. Try being upbeat and fun with these women! Poke fun at their ugly uniforms. Say something like "Wow, I think I saw that same outfit in (trendy clothes store). How much did you pay for it?"

Keep the conversation fun, be enthusiastic when talking to her, and you'll likely stick in her memory when you call her up for a date.
 
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