"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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What I did..

dice

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while the forum was down..

I never had the guts to sarge before, but I was tired of being alone so I told myself I would do 500 approaches before the forums were up again. 500 turned out to be way too much but now that the forum is up I'm going to continue to try to get to 500.

My line has been.. "Hi I think you're pretty can I get your phone #"
but lately I've been trying to get atleast some kind of rapport before asking for the #, my favorite is in malls if I see an HB ill ask if they're hiring and then follow it up with asking for the #.

These are my results thus far:

67 approaches
14 #'s received
53 no # received

which have equated to

3 dates
1 girl sleeping in my bed ( making out no sex tho)

14-53 may not be a good ratio but some of them were married, and I swear if I hear "sorry I have a boyfriend" one more time I'm going to throwup on the HB.

I'd say the hardest part is finding good places to sarge, where there are lots of girls to ask. Malls are great but I don't want to go too much or else security and the workers are going to catch on that some dude keeps wondering around the mall all the time not buying anything. Anyway just thought I'd share my experience.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Bourne

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That line will work for a while but not on good women. Try to modify each approach and learn from them. Don't do same one over and over again. Also if you are going to compliment. Do so but use it for something specific instead of using that compliment, which is generic.

I'll give you that, you have b@lls, that most people don't. Just constantly improve.
 

Desdinova

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67 approaches
14 #'s received
53 no # received

which have equated to

3 dates
1 girl sleeping in my bed ( making out no sex tho)
Your rapport is what's causing low results. When you have a conversation with a woman, she needs to get the message that you are the fvcking golden catch. Try being upbeat and fun with these women! Poke fun at their ugly uniforms. Say something like "Wow, I think I saw that same outfit in (trendy clothes store). How much did you pay for it?"

Keep the conversation fun, be enthusiastic when talking to her, and you'll likely stick in her memory when you call her up for a date.
 
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