"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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What helps you fall asleep?

Zaraza

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Exactly that, what helps you fall asleep?

Herbal tea? Milk and cookies? Tea and Honey? A shower? A bath?

Im back in school and need to get my sleeping schedule perfected, what are some ways that help you fall asleep.

btw i know some smart ass will suggest tranquilizers :)
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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MrS

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Jerking off.
 

Crazy Asian

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don't sleep for a whole day.
then the next day, you can fall asleep at ANY time you want.
and from there on, just go with your desired sleeping pattern.
 

int3l

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there is a sleep deficit in what crazy Asian suggested. You'll have to make up for the lost sleep at some future date.
 

yungahdubz

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Tranquilizers
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I tried the not sleeping for a day thing, sort of on accident. What happened was I fell asleep mid day the next day so I still didnt get to sleep when I should have.

An hour before bed lower the lights a lot. Stay away from caffeine at least eight hours before bed. I think getting on the computer an hour before bed can be a bad idea since you are staring at a bright light. This works for me, when you lay in bed close your eyes and imagine some really wierd stuff. Like elephants running then growing wings and flying then dropping bombs but when the boms hit they grow flowers and on and on.
 

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MrS said:
Jerking off.
ROTFLMAO!

Ambien worked good for me, but made me feel groggy after waking, but the shyt works for sure. Even makes you hallucinate if start to fight it.
 

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Get up early and live for a whole day. Don't just sit around watching TV all day. Get out and do stuff all day long and you won't have any trouble getting to sleep.
 

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Sex, jerking it, marijuana, working out lots, 12 hour shifts, etc...
 

BeyondCharm

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Writing, Meditation, Prayer, Not being angry or resentful about anything or towards anyone.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Sex, Jerking, Weed, Tea and reading engineering books.

And you can't make up for lost sleep as mentioned above.

Edit - If you can't sleep, do something productive during your waking hours. You'd be surprised how much work you can get done in the AM.
 
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I think speed dawg has the best suggestion. Wake up and work out then do school and afterwords work or do whatever to keep going. That works really well for resetting things.
 

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For a cheap fix, gravol (generic brands are cheap at about 100pills for $5 CAN).

I take 2 50mg pills to fall asleep @ 6'05 175 pounds, 6%bf.
Increase the amount by 25mg for every consequtive day. Just don't get addicted to it.

Takes 1hr with or 45 without food to take full effect.
 
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