"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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What have you learned from a Natural?

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What have you learned from the guys outside of the internet? Did they help you with woman? What were some things they said?

If you can take these questions seriously, we can learn alot. So let's share.

-If you touch them and they smile, it's a sign of interest.
-Have confidence
-Believe in yourself
-Go easy
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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A guy that I work with has the tightest natural game I've ever seen. He's 28, bald and looks kind of like a slimmer Homer Simpson, but he always knows what to say and isn't afraid of any girl.

He is always smooth, and always talks and moves slowly with the sleepy eyes look. He is warm to absolutely everyone he meets. He will have a conversation with absolutely anyone even complete strangers. He is genuinely interested in everyone and will share his personal information with anyone.

He is comfortable talking about sex with any woman, young or old and they are comfortable talking about sex with him. I've learned from him that it is important to be honest and real when talking to a girl, something that isn't easy for me.

What's most interesting to me is that he naturally does everything this site says to do without even thinking about it.
 

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natural is beautiful... Very beautiful.
 

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I wish I got to know this guy better but I knew this guy who was a player at my college, very smooth player. Anyway he made me realize that you could invite a woman over and have sex with her with no date, no dinners and no flowers. Very f-king cool.

He told me he'd invite a girl to watch TV in his room on his bed, they'd listen to music and then start kissing and having sex. Other times he'd invite a girl over for a bubble bath. I was baffled at the time but I need to find another guy who knows his stuff like that.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by ImmortalDragon
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What?
Yes. Beautiful and its in the eye of the boholder.

I've learned from guys in the my everyday life. All beautiful things especially with women. Clear enough?
 

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A big part of it is recognizing which women is interested in you, and not wasting time trying to chase a woman who is not. Some of these guys can spot them right away, and thus never waste time like the rest of us

Dietzcoi
 

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If you already know how to make a woman like you, it wouldn't be a waste of time.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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