"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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What have you learned from a Natural?

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What have you learned from the guys outside of the internet? Did they help you with woman? What were some things they said?

If you can take these questions seriously, we can learn alot. So let's share.

-If you touch them and they smile, it's a sign of interest.
-Have confidence
-Believe in yourself
-Go easy
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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A guy that I work with has the tightest natural game I've ever seen. He's 28, bald and looks kind of like a slimmer Homer Simpson, but he always knows what to say and isn't afraid of any girl.

He is always smooth, and always talks and moves slowly with the sleepy eyes look. He is warm to absolutely everyone he meets. He will have a conversation with absolutely anyone even complete strangers. He is genuinely interested in everyone and will share his personal information with anyone.

He is comfortable talking about sex with any woman, young or old and they are comfortable talking about sex with him. I've learned from him that it is important to be honest and real when talking to a girl, something that isn't easy for me.

What's most interesting to me is that he naturally does everything this site says to do without even thinking about it.
 

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natural is beautiful... Very beautiful.
 

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I wish I got to know this guy better but I knew this guy who was a player at my college, very smooth player. Anyway he made me realize that you could invite a woman over and have sex with her with no date, no dinners and no flowers. Very f-king cool.

He told me he'd invite a girl to watch TV in his room on his bed, they'd listen to music and then start kissing and having sex. Other times he'd invite a girl over for a bubble bath. I was baffled at the time but I need to find another guy who knows his stuff like that.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by ImmortalDragon
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What?
Yes. Beautiful and its in the eye of the boholder.

I've learned from guys in the my everyday life. All beautiful things especially with women. Clear enough?
 

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A big part of it is recognizing which women is interested in you, and not wasting time trying to chase a woman who is not. Some of these guys can spot them right away, and thus never waste time like the rest of us

Dietzcoi
 

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If you already know how to make a woman like you, it wouldn't be a waste of time.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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