"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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What have you done for yourself Today.

Best friends? NAY

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Others will not and CAN NOT do what you can do for yourself. They could push you and inspire you, but they can not do for you, what you can do for you.

So, I ask what you have done for yourself today. Have you worked out or read a book today?

What did you eat for lunch? Did you eat a juicy burger, with lots of fry’s and a coke? Or did you lean meat, and an apple?

There is only one person that is guaranteed to be there for you, and I suggest you start taking care of him.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Ice Cold

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Today was unusually productive :D

Get up.
Study + lectures
Do a workout
Ace a quiz
Run into some people, hang out for an hour
Do homework
Watch tv
Type this
go sleep
 

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What did you eat for lunch? Did you eat a juicy burger, with lots of fry’s and a coke?

Lol i did exactly that/ :eek:
 

PalmerTheCharmer

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Lol. I see your point tho Best Friends? NAY. I remember someone's sig saying something like 'The key - making self improvement a habit'.

Something to think about. Hmm.
 

SELF-MASTERY

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I *****ed out of 2 approaches in 2 days. I haven't done a damn thing for myself.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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FM 3321

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I'm gonna print this out and paste it on my wall. This is so little yet so powerful. :)
 
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