"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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What have you done for yourself Today.

Best friends? NAY

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Others will not and CAN NOT do what you can do for yourself. They could push you and inspire you, but they can not do for you, what you can do for you.

So, I ask what you have done for yourself today. Have you worked out or read a book today?

What did you eat for lunch? Did you eat a juicy burger, with lots of fry’s and a coke? Or did you lean meat, and an apple?

There is only one person that is guaranteed to be there for you, and I suggest you start taking care of him.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Ice Cold

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Today was unusually productive :D

Get up.
Study + lectures
Do a workout
Ace a quiz
Run into some people, hang out for an hour
Do homework
Watch tv
Type this
go sleep
 

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What did you eat for lunch? Did you eat a juicy burger, with lots of fry’s and a coke?

Lol i did exactly that/ :eek:
 

PalmerTheCharmer

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Lol. I see your point tho Best Friends? NAY. I remember someone's sig saying something like 'The key - making self improvement a habit'.

Something to think about. Hmm.
 

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I *****ed out of 2 approaches in 2 days. I haven't done a damn thing for myself.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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FM 3321

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I'm gonna print this out and paste it on my wall. This is so little yet so powerful. :)
 
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