"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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What has fallen into my lap?

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I'm a junior in HS and I noticed a good-looking Freshman girl. I figured she never really took interest to me however a few days ago, while walking past here locker, shes comes up to me and gives me a hug. I failed to hug back because I was trying to figure what was going on. She lets go and walks away with a little "good-bye". I take a step forward and pause where I am. Thought a moment. Then continued to walk.

Now thinking about it I wonder what has fallen into my lap? (Is she into me? etc.)

Then it occured to me... I didn't play that right.

Then I found this site. I've been reading articles, posts, and the DJ Bible. You guys have some good techniques at your disposal. I've had my share of girls but I figured I'm not where I can be, a true DJ.

My question now is, how do I recoop from that? How do I play my cards now? I know there are many different ways to go about it so please feel free to share.

I got a lot to work on but DJship here I come.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Don't worry about it; a few bumps in the relationship won't kill your chances. It wasn't anything major or lasting.

Think of it this way: will she be conciously thinking about this a week from now when you are talking to her? Hell no. So don't worry.

Just keep looking foward and use this as motivation not to screw up next time.
 
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The next time you see her...say something that's ****y and funny....say something like, "That hug you gave me was one he!! of a way to say that you love me......but, you'll need to do more than that to get me"....doesn't have to be word for word....this was just a quick sample.
 
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Listen to Docs...he basically read my mind...

Next time you see her...do the same thing and right before you say it, look at her with EC, smile (playfully) and say "Payback..." then hug her...and just luahg around with it - nothing serious. Play it from there....
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Originally posted by SL1CK
Listen to Docs...he basically read my mind...

Next time you see her...do the same thing and right before you say it, look at her with EC, smile (playfully) and say "Payback..." then hug her...and just luahg around with it - nothing serious. Play it from there....
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Of course as doing that is an option..this situation has many avenues.
 
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