“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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What has changed since I joined (Update)

Dam44

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I have known so suave for like a year before I finally joined. I joined because a girl(in my previous threads) I really liked didn't say yes when I told I liked her. She said she was in a relationship (most likely untrue).

I still remember what happened after I told her on the phone. I was unbothered at first, then the feeling I may never get her started to crush me, lol.
I still remember her texting me the next day probably to check if we're still cool

After the 'rejection', I still tried to hold on. I would call her sometimes, text her too. There was a time she texted me literally of blues that she was missing me. Now it feels like she was just trying to keep me around like the way a football coach would try to keep a good striker he feels is not the best for him around while looking for another.

Now, it's all over. I realise it's all manipulation. She has to put in way more effort if she's interested.
I haven't contacted her for over a month now. Our university is yet to resume so we haven't seen since March.

I think this COVID19 pandemic really taught me things that would be useful in future, especially about women.

I feel the more you detach yourself emotionally, the easier it becomes. It's even better when you are really busy with things

She's welcome in the future in she's interested and I'm free. I still see her posts on Instagram and WhatsApp but I ignore them.

Away from her

I feel like I'm too picky. Most of the girls really interested in me, I do not like them.

Most of the girls I like don't really do too. Some that did like me no longer do because I was too focused on the first girl in this post and I slightly regret that

I asked a girl out after the coronavirus reduced here and got rejected. I've gone on a date with another girl, things are moving slowly. We'll see what happens. I'm trying not to push things hard. I feel it's easier when the girl really wants it than you.

Recently, a girl approached me at church. It feels good by the way.

My school could be reopened anytime and I'll be busy with school work and I think this break is good. I know I'm less likely to get manipulated like the average guy out there.

This is a long one, I'm sorry
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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