"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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what happens when a guys loses the upper hand?

tjslove

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Here is what happened

A year ago I told a girl I have known since age 7 and dated off and on that I was moving away. She said she had to see me. When I got on the date I admitted to her it was a lie. We did not talk for a year.

Recently we started talking and went over her apt. We made out and talked a little about last year....she seemed fine.

This past Monday she went postal on me about this and how I seem so fake. Which I really like her and now she is making me work for this crap. I sent flowers which she likes but what is my next move if i want her in my life
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Gangster Of Love

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You know need to sweet talk her and charm her into liking you. Lie even more if you have to.

Next, plan an expensive, classy dinner at a nice restaurant. I suggest you rent a limo, and a tuxedo. You gotta look sharp. Don't forget to wear cologne.

Make sure you buy a lot more flowers, get a box of chocolates, and get her a gift, preferably some perfume. Call up her family/friends to find out what kind she likes.

Tell her the only reason why you lied was because you really love her and have been wanting to marry her ever since age 7, and you didn't feel you were good enough for her, so you needed to make up stuff to impress her.

Tell her you can't live without her, and that you life is not complete without her in it. This should make her cry, melt, right in front of you, then you can propose marriage to her, which I suggest you have a ring with you for her.

Tell her about how you have planned the wedding and the honeymoon vacation. By then she will be all over you, and will be calling all her friends and family to tell them the news, she won't be able to contain herself.

Please keep us posted on this one.
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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You joined this site in 2005.... Have you learned anything yet or is this a joke? Cause if your being serious you got alot of work to do!!!!!!!!

But, seriously, just buy more flowers.
 

IamMyownMan

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Dote on her.

Ask her what she needs.

Write her poetry.

Serenade her.

Think about her constantly.

Tell her that you think about her constantly.

Tell her she reminds you of your mother.

Leave notes on her car while she is at work.

Leave muffins on her step while another guy is with her in her bedroom.(I witnessed this once. The girl I was with felt bed and then we boned, for the third time of the morning.)

Care about what she thinks of you.

Overanalyze every conversation with her and make it obvious.

Hold in flatulence in her presence.

Let her walk all over you.

Repeat for success...
 

Slick101

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tjslove said:
Here is what happened

A year ago I told a girl I have known since age 7 and dated off and on that I was moving away. She said she had to see me. When I got on the date I admitted to her it was a lie. We did not talk for a year.

Recently we started talking and went over her apt. We made out and talked a little about last year....she seemed fine.

This past Monday she went postal on me about this and how I seem so fake. Which I really like her and now she is making me work for this crap. I sent flowers which she likes but what is my next move if i want her in my life
Honestly You only come to us when you have no way out only 26 posts in 2 1/2 YEARS!! DAMN!!

Honestly, read MM THEN youll know what to do!!

How old are you N E way?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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bigshot

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Just next her mate, not worth the effort. She'll come running back
 
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