"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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what happens when a guys loses the upper hand?

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Here is what happened

A year ago I told a girl I have known since age 7 and dated off and on that I was moving away. She said she had to see me. When I got on the date I admitted to her it was a lie. We did not talk for a year.

Recently we started talking and went over her apt. We made out and talked a little about last year....she seemed fine.

This past Monday she went postal on me about this and how I seem so fake. Which I really like her and now she is making me work for this crap. I sent flowers which she likes but what is my next move if i want her in my life
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Gangster Of Love

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You know need to sweet talk her and charm her into liking you. Lie even more if you have to.

Next, plan an expensive, classy dinner at a nice restaurant. I suggest you rent a limo, and a tuxedo. You gotta look sharp. Don't forget to wear cologne.

Make sure you buy a lot more flowers, get a box of chocolates, and get her a gift, preferably some perfume. Call up her family/friends to find out what kind she likes.

Tell her the only reason why you lied was because you really love her and have been wanting to marry her ever since age 7, and you didn't feel you were good enough for her, so you needed to make up stuff to impress her.

Tell her you can't live without her, and that you life is not complete without her in it. This should make her cry, melt, right in front of you, then you can propose marriage to her, which I suggest you have a ring with you for her.

Tell her about how you have planned the wedding and the honeymoon vacation. By then she will be all over you, and will be calling all her friends and family to tell them the news, she won't be able to contain herself.

Please keep us posted on this one.
 
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I.A.F.Y.B.

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You joined this site in 2005.... Have you learned anything yet or is this a joke? Cause if your being serious you got alot of work to do!!!!!!!!

But, seriously, just buy more flowers.
 
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Dote on her.

Ask her what she needs.

Write her poetry.

Serenade her.

Think about her constantly.

Tell her that you think about her constantly.

Tell her she reminds you of your mother.

Leave notes on her car while she is at work.

Leave muffins on her step while another guy is with her in her bedroom.(I witnessed this once. The girl I was with felt bed and then we boned, for the third time of the morning.)

Care about what she thinks of you.

Overanalyze every conversation with her and make it obvious.

Hold in flatulence in her presence.

Let her walk all over you.

Repeat for success...
 
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tjslove said:
Here is what happened

A year ago I told a girl I have known since age 7 and dated off and on that I was moving away. She said she had to see me. When I got on the date I admitted to her it was a lie. We did not talk for a year.

Recently we started talking and went over her apt. We made out and talked a little about last year....she seemed fine.

This past Monday she went postal on me about this and how I seem so fake. Which I really like her and now she is making me work for this crap. I sent flowers which she likes but what is my next move if i want her in my life
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Honestly You only come to us when you have no way out only 26 posts in 2 1/2 YEARS!! DAMN!!

Honestly, read MM THEN youll know what to do!!

How old are you N E way?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Just next her mate, not worth the effort. She'll come running back
 
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