"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
What happens when a chick thinks all your friends are consist of girls?
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Le Parisien
Master Don Juan
Only actions will distinguish pimps from fags...:yes:
PS. I didn't want to use the word "fag", I'd have prefered "homosexuals", sorry if I offended anyone. But my conclusion sounds sharper and cooler with "fag" so I sticked to it...
BlackJackal
Master Don Juan
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
reyalp
Master Don Juan
i quit sarging altogether and just hang with these girls, they're always bringing their new friends to me and i do my stuff.
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good stuffBlackJackal said:I simply tell them that the only girl you should be worrying about is you, dont worry about what I do with them.
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Master Don Juan
Yea what he said basically she thinks your a man*****, which could mean good things or bad things for you, more or less it means good things, in other words she likes you your in, now dont mess this upLe Parisien said:You are missing the point. What's more important is what she thinks you do with your supposedly all female "friends"...
Only actions will distinguish pimps from fags...:yes:
PS. I didn't want to use the word "fag", I'd have prefered "homosexuals", sorry if I offended anyone. But my conclusion sounds sharper and cooler with "fag" so I sticked to it...