Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
good stuffBlackJackal said:I simply tell them that the only girl you should be worrying about is you, dont worry about what I do with them.![]()
Yea what he said basically she thinks your a man*****, which could mean good things or bad things for you, more or less it means good things, in other words she likes you your in, now dont mess this upLe Parisien said:You are missing the point. What's more important is what she thinks you do with your supposedly all female "friends"...![]()
Only actions will distinguish pimps from fags...:yes:
PS. I didn't want to use the word "fag", I'd have prefered "homosexuals", sorry if I offended anyone. But my conclusion sounds sharper and cooler with "fag" so I sticked to it...![]()