"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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what happens after LMR?

Bigworm

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so this has happened a lot - where a girl lets me get intimate with her - you know rub on her p8ssy - suck on her tits - but cops out at the last minute. my question is am i done when that happens ?- do i even try at another time? or does she lose all attraction?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Bigworm said:
so this has happened a lot - where a girl lets me get intimate with her - you know rub on her p8ssy - suck on her tits - but cops out at the last minute. my question is am i done when that happens ?- do i even try at another time? or does she lose all attraction?
Dude its not a big deal if YOU dont MAKE IT A BIG DEAL. For some dumb reason it happens a lot. Just back off for a few, dont say anything stupid and just continue... chics are retarded like that we just have to deal with it..:box:
 

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i specifically want to know what the girls thought bout a person after LMR, does she like feel ackward about the person afterwards? i would really want ur thoughts on this :confused:
 

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Bigworm said:
i specifically want to know what the girls thought bout a person after LMR, does she like feel ackward about the person afterwards? i would really want ur thoughts on this :confused:
Her thoughts during the moment relate to very few things besides her fear of being seen as a "slut" (consider society's definition of the word and the accepted view that we should shun "wh0res" and "sluts" and "hos"/whatever-other-name-AFCs/UGs-invented-to-persecute-sexual-creatures-such-as-female-humans).

After the LMR, however, you should maintain your composure, RESIST from clinging to her even though you got however far intimately, and give it another shot. She wants reassurance that you understand her desires and won't run off and brag to your friends after you tap that ass. Try to make your understanding and thus your ACTIONS congruent with her feelings and you'll hopefully go all the way. :D
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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