"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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what happens after LMR?

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so this has happened a lot - where a girl lets me get intimate with her - you know rub on her p8ssy - suck on her tits - but cops out at the last minute. my question is am i done when that happens ?- do i even try at another time? or does she lose all attraction?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Bigworm said:
so this has happened a lot - where a girl lets me get intimate with her - you know rub on her p8ssy - suck on her tits - but cops out at the last minute. my question is am i done when that happens ?- do i even try at another time? or does she lose all attraction?
Dude its not a big deal if YOU dont MAKE IT A BIG DEAL. For some dumb reason it happens a lot. Just back off for a few, dont say anything stupid and just continue... chics are retarded like that we just have to deal with it..:box:
 

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i specifically want to know what the girls thought bout a person after LMR, does she like feel ackward about the person afterwards? i would really want ur thoughts on this :confused:
 

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Bigworm said:
i specifically want to know what the girls thought bout a person after LMR, does she like feel ackward about the person afterwards? i would really want ur thoughts on this :confused:
Her thoughts during the moment relate to very few things besides her fear of being seen as a "slut" (consider society's definition of the word and the accepted view that we should shun "wh0res" and "sluts" and "hos"/whatever-other-name-AFCs/UGs-invented-to-persecute-sexual-creatures-such-as-female-humans).

After the LMR, however, you should maintain your composure, RESIST from clinging to her even though you got however far intimately, and give it another shot. She wants reassurance that you understand her desires and won't run off and brag to your friends after you tap that ass. Try to make your understanding and thus your ACTIONS congruent with her feelings and you'll hopefully go all the way. :D
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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