"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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'what happened with ur last girlfriend?'

KneghtRyder

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i redirected the convo, bc frankly i never had a gf ..hehe

so i am decided to hold off until a better mind set on my part to discuss previous relationships..

how would you answer this question
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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KneghtRyder said:
i redirected the convo, bc frankly i never had a gf ..hehe

so i am decided to hold off until a better mind set on my part to discuss previous relationships..

how would you answer this question
"What happened to my ex Girlfriend?" Eh,... you dont wanna know. Your topic should read "How did you get out of Hell?" That would suit my experience more.
 

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"does it matter? ovbiously I'm not with her (or am I?) so what's the point.. it didn't work out, we are still on good terms"
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Well uh...dated 9 months she was a raging ***** that held sex over my head and I was stupid enough to fall for it.

One night we had some tequila, I wore it out...

Woke up at 6am with a killer hang over and the ***** says "Hey go to the store and get me some fiji water (that expensive ****) "

I put on my boots, drove hung over as **** and got her damn water...she said "What they didn't have the large bottles?"

I turned around and never came back.

Was sweet

Then the ***** went to my mom while she was at work and told her a bunch of **** about how much she loved me blah blah

good times
 

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Moofahsa said:
Well uh...dated 9 months she was a raging ***** that held sex over my head and I was stupid enough to fall for it.

One night we had some tequila, I wore it out...

Woke up at 6am with a killer hang over and the ***** says "Hey go to the store and get me some fiji water (that expensive ****) "

I put on my boots, drove hung over as **** and got her damn water...she said "What they didn't have the large bottles?"

I turned around and never came back.

Was sweet

Then the ***** went to my mom while she was at work and told her a bunch of **** about how much she loved me blah blah

good times
Your such an idiot lol J/K. but have to learn sometime ya know? :) Ive been there.
 

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My ex girlfriend once tried to dump me, I ate her liver with with some fava beans and a nice chianti. Hopefully she's a movie buff, or else she might be mortified :crackup:.
 

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KneghtRyder said:
u serious ? r u trying to get me in trouble
For real. Say that she's buried in New Jersey, real men don't have gardens. :p
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I like my men like I like my cool aid...



sweet


lol, just kiddin
 
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