"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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CuddleJunkie

CuddleJunkie

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@zekko: yeah, that makes a lot of sense. The PUA thing settled the bases of the game, but then people dug deeper and saw the matrix. And then, as the situation with women went worse, it was clear that, in the end, you only can work on yourself.

@ubercat: I totally agree, in the end the ones that allowed this situation were men. And as long as we/they allow this, things will only get worse.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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raider87

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I still believe in "the one" as in there's only going to be maybe a handful or so of women you'll meet throughout your life that you'll have both great attraction for and chemistry with. Think of how many best male friends you have. Most people you meet you wont really get along with. That's been my experience anyway.
 
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