"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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What happened to the Ones?

CuddleJunkie

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@zekko: yeah, that makes a lot of sense. The PUA thing settled the bases of the game, but then people dug deeper and saw the matrix. And then, as the situation with women went worse, it was clear that, in the end, you only can work on yourself.

@ubercat: I totally agree, in the end the ones that allowed this situation were men. And as long as we/they allow this, things will only get worse.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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raider87

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I still believe in "the one" as in there's only going to be maybe a handful or so of women you'll meet throughout your life that you'll have both great attraction for and chemistry with. Think of how many best male friends you have. Most people you meet you wont really get along with. That's been my experience anyway.
 
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