"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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What happened to my posts?

Rollo Tomassi

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Please make sure your age shows up on your profile. This forum is reserved for Mature men 25 and over.

If the Mods don't see your age on your profile your posts will be deleted

You don't have to make it public, but it must be on your profile.

If you start a thread and there is no age on your profile, the thread will be moved.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Here let me put my age as 37 and you'll be none the wiser. See how simple that was? So because I dont put my age up then my post becomes inconsequential? Sounds like bogus ruling to me. Whats funny is ive been registered longer then some of these mods.

Reminds me why I left this forum years ago. Im out.
 
Rollo Tomassi

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And to think, all it would've taken is 3 minutes to have read the forum rules, adjusted your age and you might've avoided all of this. One would think such an astute and senior member as yourself would've noticed he was posting in the Mature Man's Forum and been familiar with the rules after 6 years here.

I've unerased your previous posts (which indeed were long and well thought out). Have a nice day.
 
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I made a post last night, my first, where'd it go? Did i offend the powers that be? Was it offensive? Testing, testing..............
 
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There are a lot of posts deleted last night. Age was shown in those posts. No offensive language in it. Couldnt log in either?

Whats happening here?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Can someone explain the disappearing posts? Some that I thought were of great help yesterday were gone this morning.


Cheers!
 
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I'm showing my age now. Will my previous posts that were remeoved now be restored to the threads they were removed from ?
 
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We're not trying to crush views we disagree with, it's just that this is the limitations we have set for this forum in order for it to be a place where older men can present their views independently from the General Discussion board where they may be put off by the constant flow..
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I already gave my age twice: once while registering the forum and once in the original post.
 
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My post was deleted

Sorry, I'm new to the forum. Ive changed my profile so that my age could be displayed. Is it possible to undelete my post?
Thanks
 
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i am trying to post something in this forum, but it does not show up. Is there a maximum length? it was pretty wordy.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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