"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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What happened to Francisco d'anconia?

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TheVirtualMind said:
Yes dude, we remember you.

Anyone remember Sammo? The Matrix: Reloaded? Diablo? Nocturnal? Jester? Whatsupwiddat? TonyOI/RedBlueOI/KinoOI? Paradox? DIESEL?
yes and out of all of them all i know is that jester got his own forum and started going by another name.
i think it was pimpology .com or something. and it was a decade or so ago.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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This forum was my beginning
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I've been on this forum since 2001. (Ghosted for 3 years and left for a few years every few years hence my signature).. this is quite a unique thread.. I still remember the name Francisco -- seemed like a quality poster. Some dude named Beck used to help me via PM back when I was a total AFC dating some lame azz girl who never let me hit it.... this place has helped alot of people.
 

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TheVirtualMind said:
Yes dude, we remember you.

Anyone remember Sammo? The Matrix: Reloaded? Diablo? Nocturnal? Jester? Whatsupwiddat? TonyOI/RedBlueOI/KinoOI? Paradox? DIESEL?
I remember most of them. Anybody hear from any of those guys lately?

Remember Mr. Beard?

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Desdinova said:
We banned Dr. Beard when his posts started getting unfunny and trollish.
Turned out he wasn't really a Dr, but he DID stay at a Holiday Inn Express the night before he posted!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Desdinova said:
We banned Dr. Beard when his posts started getting unfunny and trollish.
I must have missed that part. I just remember tiger games and his profile picture.

- comic_relief
 
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