"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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What happened to Francisco d'anconia?

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TheVirtualMind said:
Yes dude, we remember you.

Anyone remember Sammo? The Matrix: Reloaded? Diablo? Nocturnal? Jester? Whatsupwiddat? TonyOI/RedBlueOI/KinoOI? Paradox? DIESEL?
yes and out of all of them all i know is that jester got his own forum and started going by another name.
i think it was pimpology .com or something. and it was a decade or so ago.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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This forum was my beginning
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I've been on this forum since 2001. (Ghosted for 3 years and left for a few years every few years hence my signature).. this is quite a unique thread.. I still remember the name Francisco -- seemed like a quality poster. Some dude named Beck used to help me via PM back when I was a total AFC dating some lame azz girl who never let me hit it.... this place has helped alot of people.
 

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TheVirtualMind said:
Yes dude, we remember you.

Anyone remember Sammo? The Matrix: Reloaded? Diablo? Nocturnal? Jester? Whatsupwiddat? TonyOI/RedBlueOI/KinoOI? Paradox? DIESEL?
I remember most of them. Anybody hear from any of those guys lately?

Remember Mr. Beard?

- comic_relief
 

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Desdinova said:
We banned Dr. Beard when his posts started getting unfunny and trollish.
Turned out he wasn't really a Dr, but he DID stay at a Holiday Inn Express the night before he posted!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Desdinova said:
We banned Dr. Beard when his posts started getting unfunny and trollish.
I must have missed that part. I just remember tiger games and his profile picture.

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