"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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What happened to deesade?

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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ImTheDoubleGreatest!

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You know what, **** it. I'm out. I don't have the patience to come back here again. Pook did say that you had to leave this place eventually. I guess my time is now. Thanks for everything guys, I've learned a lot from here and changed a lot, this place truly did change my life. Now it's time time toughen the **** up and face reality again. I might come back here in few years time, or maybe in a week, or maybe never again. But I think I've learned what I could from here. Thanks again guys. Always get stronger, and be great.


I'm the ****ing greatest. No wait, I'm not the greatest, I'm the double greatest! And don't any of you ever forget it!
 

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Deesade did not get banned. He left on his own. In fact, he went from one of the highest on the moderator shvt list to one of the most turned around we have seen. @ImTheDoubleGreatest! Hate to see you go. But you are one of the lucky ones who found sosuave at early age. So you might have got the benefits already. I wasn’t that lucky at your age. Didn’t get it till my 30s and we old guys take a longer time to catch up. Good luck man.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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