"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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What happen to my threads?

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Last night I posted two threads in anything else and in here and now this morning there no where to be found.What happened?its the one about the ghosts and the rate me forum.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Apparently last night a lot of posts disappeared on the site in a lot of forums. I know there was a post in the Mod Corner that I saw earlier that wasn't there last night. Though it's back today. *Shrugs* Strange forum nowaday.
 

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Originally posted by Eternal
Apparently last night a lot of posts disappeared on the site in a lot of forums. I know there was a post in the Mod Corner that I saw earlier that wasn't there last night. Though it's back today. *Shrugs* Strange forum nowaday.
Happened to me too. About 3 threads went missing in the Mod Corner, then magically re-appeared. Threads in AE that were locked with replies were unlocked and had no replies - then went back to locked with replies... I think it's al-queda.
 

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It's not hackers; it's merely the server having some issues... happens from time to time on any forum, this one is no exception.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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