"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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What girls think.........

Fabrizio

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well, i got a question:

do you think girls are turned off from a guy, i mean not by looks, but by who he hangs out with and such, like if one hangs out with gang members, wears gang colors, and is known for gangbanging. will girls be like oh get away from him hes bad or stuff like that? what about that and also if the person is a known marijuana user?

does that effect a girls' attraction towards a person?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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DJoneday

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Completely, no matter what you're like as a person first impressions are ALWAYS visual, one person seeing another. Can you change this impression? Of course. But by being in a gang, smoking weed n all that, people will always stereotype you and some girls will have nothing to do with you, no matter what.
 

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Yes, most girls will be influenced by your reputation and the types of people you hang out with. Of course, whether that influence is positive or negative depends on the girl you're trying to attract. If you're going for the valedictorian straight-edge chick who goes to church every Sunday, then being a pot smoking gang member will be a turn-off. If you're going for a ghetto slut, then it will probably work in your favor.
 

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well i thought girls liked that "bad as s attitude"

prably just to a certain extent right?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by Fabrizio
well i thought girls liked that "bad as s attitude"

prably just to a certain extent right?
You got it. Let's say the tables were turned and it turns out that guys like "bad girls." Would you want a crack *****? Or just a girl who's relaxed and likes to try new things, with a conscience of course.

I think the latter wins.
 

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i guess i'm screwed then.
afk, you talked about turning tables, then you asked if i would like a crack *****, well i aint a crackhead, so i think thats irrelevent. plus, its not like i'm al capone, i dont go around stabbing or killing everyone that looks at me wrong, it's just all i know, so dont be too strong.
 

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You are who you hang out with, homey.
 

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Originally posted by Fabrizio
i guess i'm screwed then.
afk, you talked about turning tables, then you asked if i would like a crack *****, well i aint a crackhead, so i think thats irrelevent. plus, its not like i'm al capone, i dont go around stabbing or killing everyone that looks at me wrong, it's just all i know, so dont be too strong.
I'm just exaggerating dude. Usually I exaggerate to scare the living sh1t outta people.

But yeah...you're screwed.













But in which way? dum dum duuummm:eek: :p
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Originally posted by Fabrizio
well i thought girls liked that "bad as s attitude"

prably just to a certain extent right?
depends on the girls you want to attract, probably if you want to attract some type of gangsta girl she wont mind, but if you want to go to attract nice good rich church preppy girls, the fact alone that you might smoke weed will turn them away from you.
 

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Originally posted by undesputable
depends on the girls you want to attract, probably if you want to attract some type of gangsta girl she wont mind, but if you want to go to attract nice good rich church preppy girls, the fact alone that you might smoke weed will turn them away from you.
Actually, this may not be entirely true. If have SEEN nice, preppy type girls wanting to get with gangsta type guys. Even ones that are in jail or on drugs and all. This may be just to piss daddy off or it is exiting for them in one way or another. They represent the ultimate badboy that they can't help being attracted to. The fact is: No matter what you are like, some girls will be attracted, and some won't.
 
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