Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Albatross953

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So I'm living the high life during the pandemic. Women like a guy that can shoot and has a pallet of canned goods in the basement.

I'm doing exactly what I want these days. Working on my own goals.

I work in a car dealership, on commission. I do really well. Recently I had someone in that I worked with many years ago. We chatted, and it was nice to catch up.

Two weeks later, another former coworker comes in. My oneitis. The woman that got me reading on this forum. She drove ten miles, past thirty other places to ask one of my coworkers a basic question any shop could have answered. She's not a client. I was with someone, we exchanged glances, she asked her question and left.

I haven't seen or talked to her in EIGHT YEARS.

Now, I know this was a validation/attention thing. Any urge to contact her lasted two seconds. I know there's nothing there.

I can't help but wonder though....wtf? Can you not get 200 guys to kiss your feet in that time? Coronavirus is making people do strange stuff...
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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dark god

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So whats your question? So you're "oneitis" did you date her at one point? Did you sleep with her? Did you even kiss her? Details plz
 

Albatross953

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We dated for about six months after my wife split. As expected I was as blue pill as they come. It grenaded on me. I see that chapter of my life as closed. There's no reason to dig up old memories for her or me.

I don't have a specific question. If I did it would be "why do you guys always have to turn out to be right about women?"
 

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I had something similar occur several years ago. She never knew how much it puzzled me (which I admit that it did). Instead, I just went about my business and she never knew.

I'm thinking that this behavior is the new version of the lady walking by and 'accidentally' dropping her handkerchief. I'm thinking that we were expected to follow up after their (so-called) "effort." .
Looks like we were both too smart.

Cool user name btw.
 

DEEZEDBRAH

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We dated for about six months after my wife split. As expected I was as blue pill as they come. It grenaded on me. I see that chapter of my life as closed. There's no reason to dig up old memories for her or me.

I don't have a specific question. If I did it would be "why do you guys always have to turn out to be right about women?"
I was at a patio post pandemic. Some skank from the past approached me to ask if I remember her. No. I approached hotter and younger. Pulled neither. The rage that follows when women from your past see you with hotter and younger.

No sweeter feel. Pay her no mind.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Epimanes

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Hey Albatross... long time no see man.. hope your doing well
 

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Some timewasting biaatch came back to see if she could get some more of that sweet free attention that she used to get from you. She´d love to reel you in again so that she could reject you to boost her ego, like she used to.

She´s probably not getting as much attention from guys as she used to and then she remembered you, that guy that always used to worship her. So she thought to herself "I know where he works, I´ll go over there and show my face to see if he tries to pursue me again so that I can feel good about myself and my declining looks".

This is like a junkie coming back to get her fix.
 

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Some timewasting biaatch came back to see if she could get some more of that sweet free attention that she used to get from you. She´d love to reel you in again so that she could reject you to boost her ego, like she used to.

She´s probably not getting as much attention from guys as she used to and then she remembered you, that guy that always used to worship her. So she thought to herself "I know where he works, I´ll go over there and show my face to see if he tries to pursue me again so that I can feel good about myself and my declining looks".

This is like a junkie coming back to get her fix.
That worshiped energy
 

Albatross953

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So I went on with life...

And then two days ago a DIFFERENT woman that I dated three months ago texts me. After saying LJBF in June, she says she thinks about me every day.

Now I'm not dumb enough to respond to either woman. But what do I look like? King of the beta males? The pandemic must really be stressing them out.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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