thedude4242
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what are these sh!i tests. could I get some info on them.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
what exactly is the sh!t test?
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
sodbuster
Master Don Juan
Keep reading,you'll find all kinds of examples. Basically-a woman has to test you to see if you are a man or a child. She says or does things to see how you react.
thedude4242
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can a girl who legitly likes you do these?
Igetit!
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RIGHT ON THE MONEY.sodbuster said:Basically-a woman has to test you to see if you are a man or a child. She says or does things to see how you react.
Basically,it's a woman testing you to see if you're a man or not.
Here's the thing....
When you first approach a woman,she doesn't know you. She doesn't know anything about you. Now,although she doesn't know you,she does know the type of guy she's interested in/attracted to.
She knows the type of guy she's interested in,she just doesn't know if YOU'RE that type. So,she'll test you. She'll do things,say things,and act and behave in certain ways that make absolutely NO SENSE AT ALL.
And it's all to see how you'll response.
For example:A woman doesn't want a man who can be pushed around.
So you know what she'll do? She'll try to push you around.
She doesn't want a man who can be controlled. So you know what she'll do?
She'll try to control you. She doesn't really want to be able to push you around or control you,she just wants to see IF she can do it.
Because if she,being a little weak woman can control or push you around,she won't feel safe with you.
That's why you can approach a girl and everything seem fine in the beginning,then suddenly for no apparent reason,she seems to lose interest.
That's because the majority of men DO NOT KNOW about these tests.
They UNKNOWINGLY get tested by women,fail the tests,then the girl will either turn ATTENTION WH0RE on the guy,or simply lose interest,then the guy is left there scratching his head wondering what happened.
It's crazy. A guy can be doing something that he thinks is making a girl like him or interested in him,and in reality,he's turning her off because it's a test she sat up.
The tests are a GOOD THING. It's good that she tests you. It means there's some interest,otherwise she wouldn't waste her time.
But yeah,Sodbuster pretty much nailed down the jist of it.
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sodbuster
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Rep points for breaking it down for him, I was at the office and had to go to work,so couldn't elaborate. Should go in the archives
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
thedude4242
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so dont be a punk who............................
calls too much
texts too much
fallows her
kisses her ass
does what she tells you to do, ect?
how long to the tests last and when do you know if you passed? thank you guys for the info.
calls too much
texts too much
fallows her
kisses her ass
does what she tells you to do, ect?
how long to the tests last and when do you know if you passed? thank you guys for the info.
starplayer
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A lot of the tests women throw at us are based on working out how desperate we are for them. That's how naturals pass them - because they have other options so they don't take her sh!t, they don't let her control him, and they don't care if she threatens to leave.
When you fully understand these tests you will look back on many interactions you've had with women and realize it's happened loads of times (I know that's what happened to me). It's like an epiphany. You will become aware and see it happening to you and other guys (many average unaware guys seem to fail btw).
Like igetit said she will try to control you. She might act upset or p!ssed off over something that didn't seem that serious, but if you start asking "what's wrong" and apologizing you will fail the test. She may act disinterested to see what you do, see if you start acting desperate, etc.
She basically wants to see the REAL YOU.
There are more tests in the beginning but YOU WILL ALWAYS BE TESTED.
If you have masculine confidence and the options to back it up then passing her tests is easy. If you don't then you basically have to fake it till you make it. Read on this site and also type "sh!t test" "women's tests" "women test men" and things like that in google and read the results from the first couple pages until you understand. SH!t tests are one of the basics. Some of them are tough but if you pass she'll get wet for you. Good luck!
When you fully understand these tests you will look back on many interactions you've had with women and realize it's happened loads of times (I know that's what happened to me). It's like an epiphany. You will become aware and see it happening to you and other guys (many average unaware guys seem to fail btw).
Like igetit said she will try to control you. She might act upset or p!ssed off over something that didn't seem that serious, but if you start asking "what's wrong" and apologizing you will fail the test. She may act disinterested to see what you do, see if you start acting desperate, etc.
She basically wants to see the REAL YOU.
There are more tests in the beginning but YOU WILL ALWAYS BE TESTED.
If you have masculine confidence and the options to back it up then passing her tests is easy. If you don't then you basically have to fake it till you make it. Read on this site and also type "sh!t test" "women's tests" "women test men" and things like that in google and read the results from the first couple pages until you understand. SH!t tests are one of the basics. Some of them are tough but if you pass she'll get wet for you. Good luck!
thedude4242
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I think there is no real such thing as a sh!t test. I just think the girl is not interested.
Exhumed
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Basically, any time a girl challenges your dominance and manliness, it's a sh*t test. Certain girls do it all the time, especially when they are interested.thedude4242 said:I think there is no real such thing as a sh!t test. I just think the girl is not interested.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
beatoven
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It's when girls do stuff to see how you react.
Very often, it's extremely subtle and you don't even know you're being tested.
This is why you speak little and listen a lot.
Very often, it's extremely subtle and you don't even know you're being tested.
This is why you speak little and listen a lot.