"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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what exactly is the sh!t test?

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Keep reading,you'll find all kinds of examples. Basically-a woman has to test you to see if you are a man or a child. She says or does things to see how you react.
 

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sodbuster said:
Basically-a woman has to test you to see if you are a man or a child. She says or does things to see how you react.
RIGHT ON THE MONEY.


Basically,it's a woman testing you to see if you're a man or not.


Here's the thing....


When you first approach a woman,she doesn't know you. She doesn't know anything about you. Now,although she doesn't know you,she does know the type of guy she's interested in/attracted to.



She knows the type of guy she's interested in,she just doesn't know if YOU'RE that type. So,she'll test you. She'll do things,say things,and act and behave in certain ways that make absolutely NO SENSE AT ALL.



And it's all to see how you'll response.



For example:A woman doesn't want a man who can be pushed around.
So you know what she'll do? She'll try to push you around.



She doesn't want a man who can be controlled. So you know what she'll do?
She'll try to control you. She doesn't really want to be able to push you around or control you,she just wants to see IF she can do it.



Because if she,being a little weak woman can control or push you around,she won't feel safe with you.



That's why you can approach a girl and everything seem fine in the beginning,then suddenly for no apparent reason,she seems to lose interest.



That's because the majority of men DO NOT KNOW about these tests.


They UNKNOWINGLY get tested by women,fail the tests,then the girl will either turn ATTENTION WH0RE on the guy,or simply lose interest,then the guy is left there scratching his head wondering what happened.



It's crazy. A guy can be doing something that he thinks is making a girl like him or interested in him,and in reality,he's turning her off because it's a test she sat up.


The tests are a GOOD THING. It's good that she tests you. It means there's some interest,otherwise she wouldn't waste her time.


But yeah,Sodbuster pretty much nailed down the jist of it.
 
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Rep points for breaking it down for him, I was at the office and had to go to work,so couldn't elaborate. Should go in the archives
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

Read more...

thedude4242

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so dont be a punk who............................

calls too much
texts too much
fallows her
kisses her ass
does what she tells you to do, ect?

how long to the tests last and when do you know if you passed? thank you guys for the info.
 

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A lot of the tests women throw at us are based on working out how desperate we are for them. That's how naturals pass them - because they have other options so they don't take her sh!t, they don't let her control him, and they don't care if she threatens to leave.

When you fully understand these tests you will look back on many interactions you've had with women and realize it's happened loads of times (I know that's what happened to me). It's like an epiphany. You will become aware and see it happening to you and other guys (many average unaware guys seem to fail btw).

Like igetit said she will try to control you. She might act upset or p!ssed off over something that didn't seem that serious, but if you start asking "what's wrong" and apologizing you will fail the test. She may act disinterested to see what you do, see if you start acting desperate, etc.

She basically wants to see the REAL YOU.

There are more tests in the beginning but YOU WILL ALWAYS BE TESTED.

If you have masculine confidence and the options to back it up then passing her tests is easy. If you don't then you basically have to fake it till you make it. Read on this site and also type "sh!t test" "women's tests" "women test men" and things like that in google and read the results from the first couple pages until you understand. SH!t tests are one of the basics. Some of them are tough but if you pass she'll get wet for you. Good luck!
 

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I think there is no real such thing as a sh!t test. I just think the girl is not interested.
 

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thedude4242 said:
I think there is no real such thing as a sh!t test. I just think the girl is not interested.
Basically, any time a girl challenges your dominance and manliness, it's a sh*t test. Certain girls do it all the time, especially when they are interested.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

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It's when girls do stuff to see how you react.

Very often, it's extremely subtle and you don't even know you're being tested.

This is why you speak little and listen a lot.
 
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