"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
What exactly is an orthodontist?
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Cheiradawg
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Alpine
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Hope you've been saving, those veneers ain't cheap
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
diablo
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You must not have followed Cheir's advice, otherwise you'd know the answer to this already. I mean, all you had to do was type in "orthodontist".
By the way, Anything Else...
GlutusMaximus86
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Seriously though an orthodontist is someone who basically moves your teeth to their correct position using braces, invisalign etc. They also use retainers (which you can generally take out of your mouth at any time) to keep your teeth straight once they have straightned them.
Alpine
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Luckily I think Dentists are catching on and jumping on the aesthetic band wagon.
Unfortunately general free care that we invented with the NHS is now only a pipe dream for many people in this country.