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Jordo
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When a women that cares about you gives you the 'I want some space' routine what exactly is she saying??? Thanks Jordo
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Silquee Smoove
Master Don Juan
You're not going to like this reply
Well it means one of two things:
1) I need more space because there is someone else and I want to spend time with/f*ck him.
or
2) I need to time to reevaluate the relationship. Women have a tendency to this.
Guys don't really do this all that much, but it still happens.
Well it means one of two things:
1) I need more space because there is someone else and I want to spend time with/f*ck him.
or
2) I need to time to reevaluate the relationship. Women have a tendency to this.
Guys don't really do this all that much, but it still happens.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
I need space = Buh-bye...
sustainable007
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I.N.S.S. =
IMO: there is no point in trying to interpret what the c^nt is saying when she says this...the best thing to do is think about what I.N.S.S. means to you...and what does I.N.S.S. mean to you?
I.N.S.S. means = it is time for you to walkaway and start banging hotter women...When you hear this take the initiative and end the relationship on the spot....Trust me you will not regret this and you will get the checkmate by ending the relationship first.....You could respond to the wench by saying something harsh (and you know what i think you have the right in this instance to be as crude as you like)...you could respond with something really masculine and ballsy like:
"Im really glad you told me that because I was really starting to get bored by you and I met a much more exciting woman that I have been waiting to go out with"
I.N.S.S. =
IMO: there is no point in trying to interpret what the c^nt is saying when she says this...the best thing to do is think about what I.N.S.S. means to you...and what does I.N.S.S. mean to you?
I.N.S.S. means = it is time for you to walkaway and start banging hotter women...When you hear this take the initiative and end the relationship on the spot....Trust me you will not regret this and you will get the checkmate by ending the relationship first.....You could respond to the wench by saying something harsh (and you know what i think you have the right in this instance to be as crude as you like)...you could respond with something really masculine and ballsy like:
"Im really glad you told me that because I was really starting to get bored by you and I met a much more exciting woman that I have been waiting to go out with"
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Kineti[C]harm
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Stay cool and see what happens.
iqqi
Master Don Juan
straight from the horse's mouth
it means sh!t aint right....
it means sh!t aint right....
lerxst
Don Juan
It means you should cut all contact with her until she contacts you back. Give her that space she so desires. In the mean time, go out, meet new girls and everything that that entails.
Genghis Juan
Senior Don Juan
Jordo,
Give us some more details....
Were you two involved in an LTR or happened to just be dating?
Were there signs that she was backing off from you before she dropped this bomb?
If you tell us more details, then we can provide you with a better answer; rather than just blurting out NEXT.
Give us some more details....
Were you two involved in an LTR or happened to just be dating?
Were there signs that she was backing off from you before she dropped this bomb?
If you tell us more details, then we can provide you with a better answer; rather than just blurting out NEXT.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
"I need some space" could mean, in my experience:
1) I still want to have sex with you but also with other guys.
2) You're smothering me.
3) I'm about to break up with you, but I can't be straighforward so I'm giving you hints.
4) Stay away from me.
When a woman says "I need some space," the best thing to do is put some distance between you and her. Go out with other chicks and enjoy your time with them. Don't make any one chick your major focus.
1) I still want to have sex with you but also with other guys.
2) You're smothering me.
3) I'm about to break up with you, but I can't be straighforward so I'm giving you hints.
4) Stay away from me.
When a woman says "I need some space," the best thing to do is put some distance between you and her. Go out with other chicks and enjoy your time with them. Don't make any one chick your major focus.
Abnigh9
Master Don Juan
Ok, I'll see you down at the hooker's club again. Bye.
Dust 2 Dust
Master Don Juan
"I need space"= I'm putting you on the backburner while I shop around for someone else. If I can't find anyone I'll come back to you.
Doesn't this piss you off?
Next her, go out and start getting phone numbers from other chicks immediately.
Doesn't this piss you off?
Next her, go out and start getting phone numbers from other chicks immediately.
Vigilante7
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1) Ur 2 clingy ~!!!!!
2) I wanna revaluate the relationship
3) ive got some personal issues and dont question me on these
2) I wanna revaluate the relationship
3) ive got some personal issues and dont question me on these
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Walk this Way
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"You're too clingy" is exactly what it means. And this feeling CAUSES a woman to find another man.
Pimp-sicle
Master Don Juan
Stole the words outta my mouth.
PIMP
Player_Supreme
Banned
Basically she doen't feel the same any more and she wants to shop around to replace you. She doesn't want to hurt your feelings and your idea that she really cares for you....is actually just YOUR idea.
It has no revelance in her reality. Even though she may actually care about you...that is what women do...it's no big deal to them.
Better get ready for the big break up! Start shopping yourself for a new girl and get a few more as back up in the future.
It has no revelance in her reality. Even though she may actually care about you...that is what women do...it's no big deal to them.
Better get ready for the big break up! Start shopping yourself for a new girl and get a few more as back up in the future.
PuertoRican_Lover
Banned
Girls that 'care about you' don't say this. They are saying I 'care' for someone else!!