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Jordo
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When a women that cares about you gives you the 'I want some space' routine what exactly is she saying??? Thanks Jordo
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Silquee Smoove
Master Don Juan
You're not going to like this reply
Well it means one of two things:
1) I need more space because there is someone else and I want to spend time with/f*ck him.
or
2) I need to time to reevaluate the relationship. Women have a tendency to this.
Guys don't really do this all that much, but it still happens.
Well it means one of two things:
1) I need more space because there is someone else and I want to spend time with/f*ck him.
or
2) I need to time to reevaluate the relationship. Women have a tendency to this.
Guys don't really do this all that much, but it still happens.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
I need space = Buh-bye...
sustainable007
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I.N.S.S. =
IMO: there is no point in trying to interpret what the c^nt is saying when she says this...the best thing to do is think about what I.N.S.S. means to you...and what does I.N.S.S. mean to you?
I.N.S.S. means = it is time for you to walkaway and start banging hotter women...When you hear this take the initiative and end the relationship on the spot....Trust me you will not regret this and you will get the checkmate by ending the relationship first.....You could respond to the wench by saying something harsh (and you know what i think you have the right in this instance to be as crude as you like)...you could respond with something really masculine and ballsy like:
"Im really glad you told me that because I was really starting to get bored by you and I met a much more exciting woman that I have been waiting to go out with"
I.N.S.S. =
IMO: there is no point in trying to interpret what the c^nt is saying when she says this...the best thing to do is think about what I.N.S.S. means to you...and what does I.N.S.S. mean to you?
I.N.S.S. means = it is time for you to walkaway and start banging hotter women...When you hear this take the initiative and end the relationship on the spot....Trust me you will not regret this and you will get the checkmate by ending the relationship first.....You could respond to the wench by saying something harsh (and you know what i think you have the right in this instance to be as crude as you like)...you could respond with something really masculine and ballsy like:
"Im really glad you told me that because I was really starting to get bored by you and I met a much more exciting woman that I have been waiting to go out with"
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Kineti[C]harm
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Stay cool and see what happens.
iqqi
Master Don Juan
straight from the horse's mouth
it means sh!t aint right....
it means sh!t aint right....
lerxst
Don Juan
It means you should cut all contact with her until she contacts you back. Give her that space she so desires. In the mean time, go out, meet new girls and everything that that entails.
Genghis Juan
Senior Don Juan
Jordo,
Give us some more details....
Were you two involved in an LTR or happened to just be dating?
Were there signs that she was backing off from you before she dropped this bomb?
If you tell us more details, then we can provide you with a better answer; rather than just blurting out NEXT.
Give us some more details....
Were you two involved in an LTR or happened to just be dating?
Were there signs that she was backing off from you before she dropped this bomb?
If you tell us more details, then we can provide you with a better answer; rather than just blurting out NEXT.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
"I need some space" could mean, in my experience:
1) I still want to have sex with you but also with other guys.
2) You're smothering me.
3) I'm about to break up with you, but I can't be straighforward so I'm giving you hints.
4) Stay away from me.
When a woman says "I need some space," the best thing to do is put some distance between you and her. Go out with other chicks and enjoy your time with them. Don't make any one chick your major focus.
1) I still want to have sex with you but also with other guys.
2) You're smothering me.
3) I'm about to break up with you, but I can't be straighforward so I'm giving you hints.
4) Stay away from me.
When a woman says "I need some space," the best thing to do is put some distance between you and her. Go out with other chicks and enjoy your time with them. Don't make any one chick your major focus.
Abnigh9
Master Don Juan
Ok, I'll see you down at the hooker's club again. Bye.
Dust 2 Dust
Master Don Juan
"I need space"= I'm putting you on the backburner while I shop around for someone else. If I can't find anyone I'll come back to you.
Doesn't this piss you off?
Next her, go out and start getting phone numbers from other chicks immediately.
Doesn't this piss you off?
Next her, go out and start getting phone numbers from other chicks immediately.
Vigilante7
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1) Ur 2 clingy ~!!!!!
2) I wanna revaluate the relationship
3) ive got some personal issues and dont question me on these
2) I wanna revaluate the relationship
3) ive got some personal issues and dont question me on these
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Walk this Way
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"You're too clingy" is exactly what it means. And this feeling CAUSES a woman to find another man.
Pimp-sicle
Master Don Juan
Stole the words outta my mouth.
PIMP
Player_Supreme
Banned
Basically she doen't feel the same any more and she wants to shop around to replace you. She doesn't want to hurt your feelings and your idea that she really cares for you....is actually just YOUR idea.
It has no revelance in her reality. Even though she may actually care about you...that is what women do...it's no big deal to them.
Better get ready for the big break up! Start shopping yourself for a new girl and get a few more as back up in the future.
It has no revelance in her reality. Even though she may actually care about you...that is what women do...it's no big deal to them.
Better get ready for the big break up! Start shopping yourself for a new girl and get a few more as back up in the future.
PuertoRican_Lover
Banned
Girls that 'care about you' don't say this. They are saying I 'care' for someone else!!