"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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What exactly do you guys consider HBs?

Flabbergasped?

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I'm sure we all have different tastes, but I want to see what the consensus is around here. I'll post random pics, some from people I know, other from wherever.

http://img301.imageshack.us/my.php?image=file00901fk.jpg

HB 6-7 in my book, only because I know her in real life and she's not as hot.

http://meetme.hotornot.com/r/?emid=K8AMBZK

6 at most. Something about her smile turns me off.

http://img301.imageshack.us/my.php?image=argerich7fh.jpg

A famous pianist, to check your refined taste in women, lol.

This is it for now, I guess. Just to calibrate myself.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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1st: In the pic she looks as a 6,5 to me, but she could even be an 8 (but I have a thing for blondies).

2nd: She doesn't look really cute to me, I'd give her a 5, I don't like her smile either.

3rd: Too old and not my type at all - 4,5.
 

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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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bad photo but somewhere between 5-8; cant really tell from hte photo lol
 

Mr. Unique

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the first and second are HB6s, the last one looks like a man
 
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First one is a 4. Second one would be hot were it not for those weird eyebrows. Last one does not look like a woman.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Dude no way is that first girl a hb9. HB9s are spose to be like the hottest of the hot and she is nowhere near it.
 

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1. You are an HB9;)
2. To me she's not an HB9 at all. I'd rate her 5 or so.
3. HB7
4. Now, we're talking about Hot Babes, she's a 8.5
5. She looks bad in the pic, but she could easily be a HB8
6. She's better than the first one, but nothing more than 5.5


Adone
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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That girl HB9 is an 8... it's a bad picture! She's ****in gorgeous and every guy wants her. I'll get more pics of her when I feel like it.

I'm serious.
 

Flabbergasped?

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Ah, I'm starting to see the light. Yes, AC/DC, you are the master, but how exactly did you get around to banging all those b*tches? =)

Whoever called Martha Argerich a man must be shot. Better pic below

http://img301.imageshack.us/my.php?image=32522041wt.jpg

She's old NOW, but back when she was in her twenties (around 40 years ago, lol), she was so beautiful, jeez. And a piano master too.

Anyway, my first pic is the asian girl with the prettiest face, imo (not that there's much contest, we have all nerds), so for her to have an average rating of 5.5 means my school is a 3 on average, lol. No, really, there's like one hot girl in my school, it's terrible.
 

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Originally posted by Flabbergasped?

Whoever called Martha Argerich a man must be shot. Better pic below
shes hot in the new pic, but shes nothing special, so shoot me.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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