- May 23, 2019
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I'm new to this and have absolutely no idea what 'frame' or 'always play on your frame' or 'You should always keep your frame on women' means.
This.Who you are and what you want.
If you find yourself "outside your 'frame'", that means you are compromising. Nothing wrong with compromising, but understand that when this happens, you have to be getting something for your efforts. If you don't, then you will slowly find yourself morphing into a hyper pleasing, pvssy worshiping, little b!tch.
When a woman is "inside your 'frame'", she is the one compromising.... and you as a man should reward her for this. If a chick is never willing to compromise, dump her @ss, because she doesn't really like you.... she is just using you.
Very well put, and this here is the key distinction that I think will help a lot of guys understand the difference between compromise and just doing something a girl wants.Nothing wrong with compromising, but understand that when this happens, you have to be getting something for your efforts.
this but one side note, core values can be changed, its not easy but its possible, but not many are willingFrame = Sum total of you
Sum total or Frame = Core values + How you think + how you do things.
Core Values = Ur inherent personality and how you were brought up during ur childhood.
How you think = Basically what you're learnt (also experienced) during ur adult years and it could be heavily influenced by ur Core Values .
How you do things = Influenced by How you think.
Side note: Core values cannot be changed but how you think can be changed.
You can’t change your childhood. But you can change the interpretations. It comes down to illuminating and unravelling a set of beliefs formed at a very early age and how to offset that continuing forward.You can't change ur childhood.
That's why core values can't be change, it's always present.
It cannot dissolve, it will always be there but it can be superseded within reason with a new mindset.You can’t change your childhood. But you can change the interpretations. It comes down to illuminating and unravelling a set of beliefs formed at a very early age and how to offset that continuing forward.
Change is possible, otherwise many people who grew up in poor conditions would perpetually be victims and make poor choices corilated with that of their childhood. Separating what was done to a person and how a person reacted based on knowledge at that point is where the work is to be done.
Some things will remain fixed; actions. The brain is plastic and so one is able to, with enough will and direction, form a new sense of self. Disassociating with old aspects of ourselves requires surrendering completely and letting the past dissolve.
Yesterday does not mean it has to be the same as today. People behave in the ways they do because they are not mindful; much of people’s actions are subconscious and on auto pilot. Daily micro traumas to a certain area will dissolve old patterns.
Right. But I can change the interpretation of my childhood. No different than I can change the interpretation of a fallout with another person and why it got there; different areas can be brought in to light. Very rarely is one thing just as it seems.It cannot dissolve, it will always be there but it can be superseded within reason with a new mindset.
Core values = Inherent Personality (born with) + what your learn when ur brain was forming.
If u r an expressive, you can't change into a dominant, if u try you'll come off as fake or over compensating.
What u were thought in ur childhood by ur parents will subconsciously be embedded in ur brain, its always there.
Perception = how you thinkRight. But I can change the interpretation of my childhood. No different than I can change the interpretation of a fallout with another person and why it got there; different areas can be brought in to light. Very rarely is one thing just as it seems.
The mountain changes from each side of view.
Sometimes in life we just have to change our perspective on some things.
True.How you think is related to the core of oneself. Subconscious behaviour stems from core values.
Many people when trying to develop a new self overlook these three. But they are the foundation. Many can confuse personality with character especially. So many will try to rebuild their personality hoping for different results; however that is short term - the people who subscribe to formulas and read books on how to game women.Seems like guys are nailing it: integrity; character; self-respect. Those are top-notch qualities that will draw any woman's attention.